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      Official Board Rules + Regulations   01/07/2010

      <b>Official Board Rules + Regulations Hello and welcome to The Official LIGHTS Message Board! We hope you find this to be a friendly place to discuss LIGHTS and everything in-between. Please read on for some general rules and etiquette: 1. Post threads in their appropriate forums. Official News: Here you will find most of the recent LIGHTS news. For complete updates visit iamlights.com for more. Forum News: This forum is for all news and updates on the messages boards. Check this forum for updates on the board rules, how to contact the board admin/mods, and more. Help + Support: Having trouble with the boards or need help finding your way around? Post in this forum. New Member Lounge: New members please read this section to find forum rules, guidlines, etc. This section is reserved to talk about you so introduce yourself! If you are new to the boards, please remember to check the board rules. Welcome to the boards and we look forward to chatting with you! 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Jeremy the Bug

Moderators & Moderating

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Hello All.

I have reprimanded a number of members over the last few months for not only blatantly disregarding warnings by mods but personal attacking them through PMs and starting fights with them in threads. You may or may not be aware but the mods are all volunteers- they dedicate their personal time and risk affecting their relationships here with other members because they love this community and want to see it flourish. I handpicked Mike, Emily, Kayla, Jim (nblsavage), Brian, and Joris because they have qualities that i respect, are knowledgeable, easygoing, kind, passionate, and not only contribute to this board but know how to listen. Being a mod is a lot of work and they are doing an excellent job. As my time around the forum grows shorter, i rely on them to communicate issues to me and enforce rules that I created. They act on my behalf and i would expect you to please respect them as i would hope you respect me.

If people stop respecting the mods, this place would crumble.

If you have issues with a mod and how they are enforcing a particular rule, take a deep breath and don't take it personally. Keep an open mind to what a mod has to say. They're just the messenger, so no need to shoot them nasty PMs. if you have an issue with a mod or with something they warned you about and need some clarification, feel free to contact another mod or me and ask for input/ opinion. we will address it.

Of course, this doesn't apply to most of you here so feel free to disregard this smile.gif

Thank You!

PS: We're not ***** here but obeying the rules and mods makes things easier. For starters, it helps things run more smoothly and keeps the rest of the community happy.

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Well said! :P I really enjoy the mods here. Unlike other forums, they're active & actually do contribute, & enforce the rules when needed. Not to the extent where they're jerks or anything though.

I really hope there hasn't been a lot of people actually doing that though.. sending nasty PMs to the mods I mean. I can't understand some folks. :huh:

Keep up the awesome work guys! Lights forum needs to be kept clean! ;) <3

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I totally agree. Why would people flame any of the mods via PM? All the mods here seem like pretty nice folks to me. They're just making sure the Lights forum community follows forum policy, that's all. So unless any forum member happens to be a big jerk in real life, they really shouldn't find any reason to get all mad about the mods reminding them about the forum etiquette. :mellow:

Tim (aka the Slipperman)

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I read Jeremy's first post read in Lotar voice. EPIC +5

Thanks, Mods, for being there for us.

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i really really appreciate your support guys. A few bad eggs makes a mods job much much harder. Like i said, they don't deserve to be abused. It really upsets me when someone takes it out on a mod and berates them for nothing more than a personal vendetta. It only takes a few comments or nasty PMs to make one question their role here.

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I've never gotten angry messages from members, when you get hatefull messages, don't hesitate to contact the mods!

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Very well sad.

=)

I said it before but I know what its like to be a mod on a forum, especially an artist/band's forum that you're a fan of. Its really difficult and stressful, but also in all honesty I think the mods here are far better than most forums I've ever been a part of. I'm not just saying that either. I have personally never saw a mod here abuse their power or over step their authority. Believe me, if I saw that...I'd be screaming the loudest about it, lol.

Good job, mods!

=)

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Aw :( poor mods.

I think the mods are doing good, and they are doing their jobs perfectly. Round of applause for MODS, and Jeremy!

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PS: We're not ***** here but obeying the rules and mods makes things easier. For starters, it helps things run more smoothly and keeps the rest of the community happy.

LOL

Yeah I agree , i do get pretty mad sometimes when threads get closed and stuff but i guess it's for the better

and of wow about the nasty messages , I think i know who that was , too :huh::unsure:

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We love all you guys and couldn't be happier with the forum community! We are here, along with you all to make this the best board ever, full of fun people and fun ideas :) No matter our differences, we just always gotta remember we at least have one thing in common lol, our immense love for LIGHTS :lol:

We know arguments or disagreements will come up from time to time, but we want to be able to handle and resolve them all respectfully and maturely. I hope you all know none of us is a mod to power over you. And we would never "target" a member because we didn't like something they said or disagreed with an opinion of theirs. But like J said, this doesn't apply to most here, but a few rotten apples can ruin the whole bunch. So let's keep this board as awesome as we can, because I love all you guys, and being a Mod for this board is an immense honor.

Thanks Guys and Gals!

-Brian-

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I'm here because I love and respect this community. I've seen it grow enormously in the time I've been a part of it, because of that, it's inevitable that some friction happens, we're all different people. Just don't let a minor disagreement turn into a major problem. We're all here because of one thing. We love Lights. :) Let's keep this place something she can be proud of.

You all mean the world to me. I honestly can't imagine my life without Lights, J-Bug and you guys :)

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I know this is a late response, but well said Jeremy. =] I know how hard it can be to be a mod sometimes because I used to be a moderator for Stickam chatrooms. Some of those people were crazy and very rude! lol Luckily for our mods though the Lights community consists of some great and respectful people so it's a lot more enjoyable for them than what it could be. =P All the mods are great so I personally thank each and every one of you for making this such a friendly place for us all to socialize. =]

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All the mods are great so I personally thank each and every one of you for making this such a friendly place for us all to socialize. =]

:D

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